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I finally get it (reddit.com)
I’m responsible for my own wellbeing. I’m responsible for my happiness, for my future, for my life. For a long time, I blamed others. That has got me nowhere, it just made the self hatred worse and justified the hurt I feel. But I get it now. I can control how I react to things. I can control what affects me. I can’t control others and their actions, but I can decide how much I let it hurt and affect me. Thank you Mackenzie for showing me that I don’t have to have a victim mindset. I’m not a victim. I’m Grace, the human being. I’m grateful for the life lessons we’ve shared together. You were reading to me last night and I finally got it. It doesn’t have to be that way. submitted by /u/soylentgreenbeans [link] [comments]